I have struggled to have any sort of relationship with my mom forever. I try to move forward, but as my husband says "Mary it's like chasing windmills..." I wish her the best in life, regardless of the toxicity of our relationship, she birthed me and raised me. Still, toxic relationships are not good for us, and sometimes we must know when to say when. Mary J Blige rocks, and her lyrics are so true. My advice for today...any relationship where you struggle constantly, where you feel more stress than happiness, when you are constantly apologizing for no reason just to appease to that negative person...not a good or healthy relationship. Focus on those happy and positive relationships that make you thankful each and everyday. I am so lucky to have a husband that builds me up not tears me down, and in-laws that accept me for who I am and hug and love me when we are together.
I am leaving on vacation for 2 weeks tomorrow, so my posts may be few...I will try and pop in and take lots of pictures to chronicle the fun we are having....woo hoooooo!!!
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